Too Harsh
I think I was too harsh at the dinner table just now.....
As a teacher to be, I should have known better than to use such strong words on you all........
And I regret using strong language on you all just now......... I forgot I was talking to teenagers for awhile.....
And I am sorry for being so hard.........
BUT, everything I said was most sincere and to the best of my knowledge.
And I am not going to retract the facts that I stated...... I would take back the tone if I could, but not the content of what I said.......
You all must understand it is very difficult to balance between saying enough and being too harsh......
天下间最难的事就是人的事了。
And you all might find it hard to believe me because I am the only person who say all these things.........
But once again, I want to stress that it is precisely because I treat you all like good friends and thats why I said all those things......
And maybe you all want to do that also...... Dont keep things between just one or two people if you not happy with another person.....
You all are all friends, so talk like friends....... It is precisely because you all are friends thats why anything not happy must take out and discuss (take note, discuss not quarrel)
And start to learn to take criticism..........
Because you all are growing up......
Growing up is not all about having big birthday parties and collecting the best memories and presents.....
Its about doing things like an adult....... and that includes taking criticism and being more mature.......
Not to say you all very immature.......
But just to let you all know...... If I had to choose between Huay Guan's reputation and my friends, I would choose my friends......
And rather not have said all those things at the dinner table........
Take care....... And all the best for your production.
As a teacher to be, I should have known better than to use such strong words on you all........
And I regret using strong language on you all just now......... I forgot I was talking to teenagers for awhile.....
And I am sorry for being so hard.........
BUT, everything I said was most sincere and to the best of my knowledge.
And I am not going to retract the facts that I stated...... I would take back the tone if I could, but not the content of what I said.......
You all must understand it is very difficult to balance between saying enough and being too harsh......
天下间最难的事就是人的事了。
And you all might find it hard to believe me because I am the only person who say all these things.........
But once again, I want to stress that it is precisely because I treat you all like good friends and thats why I said all those things......
And maybe you all want to do that also...... Dont keep things between just one or two people if you not happy with another person.....
You all are all friends, so talk like friends....... It is precisely because you all are friends thats why anything not happy must take out and discuss (take note, discuss not quarrel)
And start to learn to take criticism..........
Because you all are growing up......
Growing up is not all about having big birthday parties and collecting the best memories and presents.....
Its about doing things like an adult....... and that includes taking criticism and being more mature.......
Not to say you all very immature.......
But just to let you all know...... If I had to choose between Huay Guan's reputation and my friends, I would choose my friends......
And rather not have said all those things at the dinner table........
Take care....... And all the best for your production.
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