Fire Sparklers and aromatic candles

Friendships (or love) can be divided into 2 types:

They might be like fire sparklers.

It is magical when you light it up. The beautiful sparkles instantly brighten up the whole place..... And everything just seems wonderful.......

Time stops for that moment and you smile...... even if you dont know it

But it is just that short minute that the magic lasts. After that, the sparkles die out and darkness returns.....

No more magic....... All you are left with is just a beautiful memory of the sparkler that just made you smile.....

Is it enough?

Might be.... might not be......

I am always left with a sense of loss when it all ends......

They might be like aromatic candles.

You light a thick block of it up....

It still brightens up the place...... But it is not as beautiful as the sparkles......

Yet you get a strong sense of security........ because you know it is not going to end so soon.....

It is slow, steady and unexciting......

But it is also long lasting....... And after a while, you get wonderful smells.... And it can make you smile as well as the sparkler....

It will end eventually, but by then it will be daybreak........ And I wont need light anymore.....

So which one do you like better?

Your friendship with me....... Is it like a sparkler or an aromatic candle?

I had had both.. But I always liked the candles better........

Because the sense of loss is too great for me to undertake....... And memories will never be enough for me

In fact, the more beautiful the memory the worse....

Your relationship with people....... Is it like a sparkler or an aromatic candle?

I have already lighted up the candle. Dont be the cold wind that blows it out

Please?